"The world is not dangerous because of those who do harm but because of those who look at it without doing anything” -Albert Einstein
“Many small people, in many small places, do many small things, that can alter the face of the world." Anonymous

Thursday, December 1, 2011

We Are Responsible For Our Little Citizens


 We Are Responsible 
Ina Hughes
 
We are responsible for children
Who put chocolate fingers everywhere

Who like to be tickled
Who stomp in puddles and ruin their new pants
Who sneak popsicles before dinner
Who erase holes in their math workbooks
Who can never find their shoes
But we are also responsible for those
Who stare at photographers from behind broken windows
Who can’t bound down the street in a new pair of sneakers
Who are born in places we would not be caught dead
Who live in an X-rated world
We are responsible for children
Who bring us sticky fingers and fistfuls of dandelions
Who sleep with the dog, and bury goldfish
Who hug us in a hurry and forget their lunch money
Who cover themselves with band aids and sing off key
Who squeeze toothpaste all over the sink
But we are also responsible for those
Who never get desert
Who have no safe blanket to drag behind them
Who watch their parents watch them suffer
Who can’t find any bread to steal
Who don’t have rooms to clean
Whose pictures aren’t on anybody’s dresser
Whose monsters are real
We are responsible for children
Who spend all their allowance before Tuesday
Who throw tantrums in the grocery store and who pick at their food
Who like ghost stories
Who shove dirty clothing under the bed, and never rinse out the tub
Who get visits from the tooth fairy
Who don’t like o be kissed in front of the carpool
Who squirm in church and scream on the phone
Who’s tears sometimes make us laugh and who’s smiles can make us cry
And we are responsible for those
Whose nightmares come in the daytime
Who will eat anything
Who have never seen a dentist
Who aren’t spoiled by anybody
Who go to bed hungry and cry themselves to sleep
Who live and move, but have no being
We are responsible
For children who want to be carried…and those who must
For those we never give up on…and for those who don’t get a second chance
For those we smother…and for those who will grab the hand
Of anybody kind enough to offer it

Sunday, November 20, 2011

My Big Girl Panties

      Never in a million years did I foresee my life taking this path. If you asked me this summer if I saw myself going  to South Africa to work with at risk children, those who have lost their parents  to violence, AIDS, and drug abuse, I would have given you my notorious  “Kelsey Face” of complete and utter confusion. I would have told you, you were NUTS!!!! I am a creature of habit. I have a routine of procrastination that I uphold on a daily basis. I have my black belt in talking myself out of situations and the fact that I even filled out the application and followed through with all the necessary paperwork is an absolute miracle. 
     I talk a big talk about wanting to help others and be there for those in need, but I am finally putting my big girl panties on and putting my money where my mouth is. This is a huge leap of faith, as I not only break away from what I find comforting in the Midwest, but also redefine who I am as a person. The course of my life has already been changed just by deciding to dive into this adventure and I haven’t even gotten there yet. I have realized that helping children can become not only a career, but also a lifetime passion.
     My life had the potential to take a very different path had it not been for neighbors, family, and friends who held me accountable. I owe everything that I am to all the people who never gave up on me. Using past harships and trials as a handicap is not in my vocabulary and I want to use my life experiences to provide love and support to those in need.  I am no longer going to sit around and wait for life to happen, I am sinking my teeth in and ready to take on whatever comes my way. I am excited for this opportunity to give back. I have come to the realization that I should no longer settle on my dreams, what the world holds for me is 100X better than any I could ever fathom.